the BREADBOX presents
HOT SEAT
LAST UPDATED: SEPTEMBER 19, 2026
QUESTION COUNT: 757
QUESTION COUNT: 757
INTENSITY:
TOPICS:
| MEDIUM | When you dream of people in your life that are dead, does the you in your dream know that they are dead? |
| MEDIUM | What's the biggest scar on your body and how did you get it? |
| LOW | Do you like coffee/tea? What's your order? |
| LOW | What animal would you want the ability to converse with? |
| MEDIUM | Did you ever use a shortcut for something simple and then realize it wasn't really a shortcut? |
| HIGH | Do you find it hard to love people that don't love themselves? |
| LOW | What's your favorite color and why? |
| MEDIUM | What is the first daydream/fantasy you remember having? |
| MEDIUM | What's something people wouldn't believe about you at first glance? |
| LOW | If you were in a beauty pageant, what would your talent be? |
| LOW | Would you rather do nothing alone or with another person? |
| LOW | Are you good at reading lips? |
| HIGH | Do you find comfort in imagining or believing that there is something after death? What do you want to happen after death, and is that different from what you think will happen? |
| MEDIUM | Who's a stranger that you'll always remember? |
| LOW | Middle piece, edge piece, or corner? |
| HIGH | What was your most shameful moment? |
| HIGH | What was your most vulnerable moment? |
| LOW | Rose or lavender? |
| LOW | How do you like your eggs? |
| MEDIUM | What's something that a little kid has said to you that's stuck with you? |
| MEDIUM | What's your favorite flower and does it remind you of anyone in particular? |
| LOW | How do you feel about the 5 second rule? |
| MEDIUM | If you could never tell a lie, would you lose friends? |
| LOW | What movie or show do you crave to rewatch most often? |
| HIGH | If you owned a restaurant and a death row inmate requested your food for their last meal, how would you feel and would you fulfill the request? |
| MEDIUM | Have your parents ever given you a speech? |
| MEDIUM | Describe a time when you were a kid and begged your parents to buy you something in the store. |
| LOW | What's your best party trick? |
| LOW | Rank the complimentary colors. |
| LOW | What is your best celebrity impression? |
| MEDIUM | What was worse for you, middle school or high school? |
| LOW | What is your favorite pair of colors? |
| MEDIUM | Would you donate sperm/eggs for a sibling (for their partner)? |
| HIGH | What do you wallow in? |
| MEDIUM | What is a family tradition that your family no longer does? |
| LOW | If you were trying to signal to someone to roll down their car window, what motion would you make? |
| MEDIUM | What's a dream or nightmare that you had as a child that you still remember? |
| LOW | How many roaches have you killed in your life? |
| LOW | How many legs is too many legs? |
| LOW | If you could be an expert in any kind of weapon, what would the weapon be? |
| MEDIUM | When you were a kid, was there a word/catchphrase that you heard a cool adult say that left you so starstruck that you wanted or tried to add it into your own vocabulary? |
| LOW | How much would you be willing to spend on a gag gift? |
| MEDIUM | What calms you down when you're frustrated? |
| MEDIUM | Would you rather have good company or good food? |
| LOW | What is most important to you in a pizza: crust quality, sauce quality, or cheese quantity? You can only pick one. |
| MEDIUM | Is there a song that reminds you of a specific person every time you hear it? |
| LOW | When you save a recipe, what's the likelihood that you will actually make it? |
| LOW | What's the fastest you've gone on the highway? |
| MEDIUM | When a stranger compliments you in public, does your response vary depending on what they look like? |
| HIGH | Do you believe there's such a thing as self-inflicted trauma? |
| HIGH | When do you feel the most alone? |
| LOW | Would you rather work with old people or kids? |
| MEDIUM | What's something that used to be reserved for special occasions when you were a kid and is no longer special now that you're an adult? |
| HIGH | When was the last time you were angry with your parents/family? |
| LOW | What kind of fame would you want? |
| MEDIUM | Do you usually have fantasies about people that you know, or imaginary people that you don't know? |
| LOW | If your sibling was not your sibling but went to the same school, would you have been friends with them? |
| MEDIUM | Do you have any family members (immediate or extended) that died young? |
| LOW | When you were a kid did you like your plushies realistic or did you like the more cartoony ones? |
| LOW | When did you stop seeing your pediatrician? |
| HIGH | Who is someone that you have a lot to say to, but you'll never say enough? |
| MEDIUM | Describe your phases. |
| LOW | Would you rather be able to dispense lip balm or lotion from your fingertips? |
| MEDIUM | What is something you never want to lose? |
| LOW | If you had to cook a three course meal for your family or friends all by yourself, what would it be? |
| LOW | Are you the kind of person that took advantage of extra credit assignments? |
| MEDIUM | If you had to decide where to take someone on a blind date, what would it be? |
| LOW | Which of your friends would you trust to carry out your funeral wishes no matter what they are? |
| MEDIUM | What is your most common daydream/fantasy? |
| LOW | If you were to have a professional portrait of yourself painted, what would you be wearing? |
| HIGH | What's worth dying for? |
| LOW | Are you more of a mom friend, dad friend, aunt friend, or uncle friend? |
| MEDIUM | Where were you or your parents on 9/11? |
| MEDIUM | What is something that you think you'd have the skills to make good money with, but you'd never do? |
| LOW | How long would you wait for someone who's late to a first date? |
| MEDIUM | Who's the last person you complimented? |
| LOW | If you could have control over the quality of one of your senses, which would it be? |
| LOW | What's a name that you really like? Do you know someone with that name? |
| LOW | Top bunk or bottom bunk? |
| MEDIUM | When is the last time a compliment flustered you? |
| LOW | Would your style be different if time and money were no matter? |
| MEDIUM | Share some recent good news about yourself. |
| MEDIUM | Would you (or did you) invite any of your exes to your wedding? |
| LOW | What stereotypical high school clique do you best align with? |
| LOW | Are you good at rejecting a sales person after you've spent a good amount of time talking to them? |
| MEDIUM | What's the first inside joke you can remember having? |
| HIGH | What is the bravest thing you've ever said and/or done? |
| HIGH | What was a situation where you could have been brave but you weren't? |
| MEDIUM | What is something you were snobbish about before but you're not so much now, or something you are more snobbish about now? |
| LOW | What's a niche hobby that you wish you could be instantly good at? |
| LOW | If you were to create and teach your own university class, what would it be? |
| LOW | What's the strangest movie you've seen in theaters? |
| MEDIUM | What do you value most about yourself? |
| MEDIUM | Do you enjoy the idea of being admired from a romantic or sexual standpoint? |
| HIGH | What was something that made you happy when you were younger that you don't do anymore, and why don't you do it anymore? |
| LOW | Recall your breakfast phases (what you've eaten regularly for breakfast at different times of your life). |
| LOW | What movies and albums have you purchased in your lifetime? |
| MEDIUM | Can you remember a great idea that you've had? |
| LOW | If you had a hidden chamber in your house, where would the entrance be, what would the hidden handle be, and what would be within the chamber? |
| MEDIUM | What's something that you would want to do with your friends that you don't think they would ever want to do with you? |
| LOW | If you could instantly tone one set of muscles, which would it be? |
| LOW | What word would you change the spelling of? |
| LOW | What word would you change the meaning of? |
| MEDIUM | You can only choose one musical artist/composer/band to score a movie about your life, who is it? |
| LOW | What is a bodily function/process you would want to permanently get rid of? |
| MEDIUM | With whom do you have the most serious conversations? |
| HIGH | Give your ex advice. |
| LOW | If you and your sibling had to co-run a business, what would it be? |
| MEDIUM | If you had to fake your death, how would you change your appearance and where would you go? Would you tell anyone? |
| MEDIUM | What song would you want played over the slideshow at your funeral? |
| LOW | Which parent's extended family do you prefer? |
| MEDIUM | What is a problem you've had that you were too embarrassed to ask for help with? |
| MEDIUM | What is something that you think about everyday besides basic necessities? |
| LOW | What is the best birthday party you've ever had? |
| HIGH | What's something you've been thinking about a lot recently? |
| LOW | To which parent are you more similar? |
| LOW | Are you an impressionable/suggestible person? |
| MEDIUM | What's a film you love that is most uncharacteristic for you to love? |
| LOW | Would you let a stranger sleep on your shoulder on the subway? |
| LOW | Have you ever passed TP to a stranger under the stall? |
| MEDIUM | What are your red flags (in yourself and others)? |
| LOW | How do you fly in your dreams? Levitation or bird or other? |
| MEDIUM | What is something that you've done as a quick, rudimentary fix for something, but it ended up holding up as a permanent fix? |
| HIGH | Are you more insecure about your personality or your looks? |
| LOW | Recall your childhood room decor. |
| MEDIUM | What's something in your life that you wish you'd done sooner? |
| MEDIUM | What would you do if you woke up one day and everyone had disappeared? |
| HIGH | If you could ask someone close to you something that they were obligated to be honest about, what would you ask? |
| LOW | What's your favorite non-human fictional character? |
| LOW | How many watermelons do you think a cow is worth? |
| LOW | Are there more things that you've told your family than your friends, or vice versa? |
| MEDIUM | What's something you wish you enjoyed more? |
| LOW | Do your dreams have realistic details (do places and people usually look the way they ought to)? |
| MEDIUM | Are your fantasies/daydreams in first person or third person? What about your dreams? |
| LOW | Is there anything that you have never told a single person? (Y/N question) |
| HIGH | Describe something that you're struggling with right now in five words or less. |
| MEDIUM | Do you feel like you've chosen your friends? |
| LOW | Would you break the pay chain in a fast food drive through, even if the person behind you had a cheaper meal than yours? |
| LOW | Are you the kind of person that would commute to work early so that you can go home early, or come in late and leave in the evening? |
| MEDIUM | If you were on a date with a significant other, whom you were considering marrying, and a plane flew overhead with a “marry me” banner and their name, would you capitalize on the moment? |
| LOW | What's the most recent thing you've tried for the first time? |
| MEDIUM | Who's a friend you're close with, but if you had a problem, you'd never go to them for a sympathetic ear? |
| LOW | Do you enjoy answering hypothetical questions? |
| MEDIUM | Rank flavor profiles: sweet, savory, sour, spicy, bitter, floral |
| MEDIUM | What's the longest time you've known someone that you've drifted away from? |
| MEDIUM | Would you rather be with a partner who's a slow walker, or never shares their food? |
| LOW | What song would you sing to a baby? |
| HIGH | Think of the thing that you're struggling the most to figure out about yourself: do you think that asking the right question will lead you to the answer? |
| MEDIUM | Would you rather be blind for one year or deaf for 3? |
| LOW | Did you ever use a nickname for a specific person that no one else used? |
| LOW | Would you choose knowledge or wisdom? |
| LOW | Were you a school lunch trader? |
| MEDIUM | Has your experience with friend groups been possessive/exclusive, or passive/open? |
| HIGH | If everyone you ever knew and loved died, would you want to be dead too? |
| LOW | Did you like sleeping over at people's houses as a kid or did you prefer they slept at yours? |
| MEDIUM | If there was to be an adaptation of an old novel in which the author was forced via censorship into making a certain ending, would you rather see a version faithful to the published version, or to the author's wishes? |
| LOW | If you could relive a year of your life with no impact on your current self, which year would you choose (if any)? |
| LOW | Do you like when stories have happy endings, even when it's not realistic? |
| MEDIUM | Do you believe that if you rent a movie 3-4 times in your life — the equivalent of buying it outright on DVD — that that ethically excuses you from pirating it every time afterward? |
| LOW | Do you have any irrational phobias? |
| LOW | What's your guilty pleasure fast food chain? |
| MEDIUM | If two people in front of you in line in public were musing about a question that you knew the answer to, would you offer it unasked? |
| MEDIUM | Do you think you'd pass the mental/physical screening to get into the peace corps? |
| LOW | What nicknames have you had during your life? |
| MEDIUM | Do you enjoy bursting people's bubbles? |
| HIGH | Who's a friend that made a positive impact on your life, but you aren't in contact with them anymore, and why are you no longer in contact? |
| HIGH | When you and a long time friend grow to be different people, is it usually easy for you to accept that and move on? |
| MEDIUM | What is your biggest inconsequential flaw (a flaw with no relation to character, like slow walking or making a cup of tea and then forgetting about it)? |
| LOW | Who's the most famous person you know? |
| LOW | How long do you keep a jar of sauce after it's been opened? |
| MEDIUM | Who have you met that is very articulate but not at all pretentious? |
| HIGH | For a year, would you rather be quadriplegic or a conjoined twin? |
| MEDIUM | Do you ever worry if there are people in your life that don't like you as much as you like them? |
| MEDIUM | When talking to others about your interests, do you prefer talking to people who know what you're talking about, or to people who don't but are eager to learn? |
| LOW | What's the most valuable thing you've broken or spilled? |
| LOW | Who do you find more charismatic, the gentleman or the scoundrel? |
| MEDIUM | What's an interest you have that you think no one else in the room shares? |
| LOW | Do you act sexy in front of your bathroom mirror? |
| MEDIUM | What's an accurate stereotype about you? |
| MEDIUM | What makes you more emotional, movies or music? |
| LOW | In what order do you dress/undress? |
| LOW | What's your favorite punctuation mark? What punctuation mark best describes you? |
| MEDIUM | What's a childish habit that you still have? |
| HIGH | Cis people: If you woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex, would you be trans? Could you be the same person you are today with an opposite set of pronouns (i.e. what makes you a man/woman)? |
| LOW | What song would you strip to? |
| LOW | Are you a black coffee person or a hot chocolate person? Which do you think other people would assume you are? |
| MEDIUM | If you could go back, would you change your major and/or minor? If you didn't go to college: what would you have chosen? |
| HIGH | Is there anything you would trade half your lifespan for (nothing like world peace, but something specifically for yourself)? |
| HIGH | What is something you believe, deep down in your soul, but is difficult to explain or justify? |
| LOW | Open face or closed face sandwiches? |
| HIGH | What is something that you have experienced that is difficult to explain to people who have not? |
| MEDIUM | What are your thoughts on the resurrection of the woolly mammoths? |
| LOW | Has a friend of yours ever chosen to go by a new nickname in the time that you've known them? |
| MEDIUM | What would you do if you got punched? |
| MEDIUM | Worst first date story? |
| LOW | What is the most bizarre nickname you've seen someone use? |
| LOW | What's the best birthday party you've ever been to? |
| MEDIUM | What's a skill you are good at that you wish you never learned (or to maybe trade for another skill)? |
| HIGH | Which do you resolve quicker, sadness or anger? |
| LOW | Have your parents ever tricked you? |
| MEDIUM | If you could choose to no longer feel romantic AND sexual attraction, would you and why? If you are already ace, would you want to feel both (has to be both)? |
| HIGH | What parts of your personality do you think you couldn't change even if you tried? |
| MEDIUM | What's a thing you wish you were still an active fan of, but don't have the energy for? |
| HIGH | When did you see someone cry the hardest? |
| LOW | Which of your friends has the coolest sibling? |
| LOW | Would you rather be a great singer or a great dancer? |
| MEDIUM | Do labels give you comfort? |
| HIGH | Are you the person you want to be? If no, do you think you will ever be? |
| HIGH | If there was a god and they told you that you will die unsatisfied in this life, but if (and only if) you end your current life now you can get everything you ever wanted in the next life, would you do it? |
| LOW | What character dynamic from a show or movie do you wish you had with someone? |
| LOW | Have you curated your smile throughout your life? |
| MEDIUM | You can punch someone you've met full force and get away with it. Who and why? |
| LOW | How soon after starting to date someone have you met their family? What about them meeting your family? |
| HIGH | What's the toughest time you've had getting over your crush? |
| MEDIUM | What's your favorite source of stress? |
| MEDIUM | When's the last time your parents said you couldn't do something? |
| LOW | What do you find oddly attractive? |
| MEDIUM | When was a time you did/said something where you hoped it would receive a bigger reaction than it got? |
| LOW | What is your experience with nose bleeds? |
| HIGH | Who has hurt you the most? (“yourself” can be an answer as well) |
| LOW | What different types of cuisines have you preferred throughout your life? |
| LOW | What is something weird that you're bad at? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been in a car accident? |
| HIGH | When things go wrong, are you more upset by things that were within your control or out of your control? |
| HIGH | What's an opinion you have that you know is wrong? |
| LOW | Have you ever blocked anyone on social media? |
| MEDIUM | Do you talk about sexual topics with your family? |
| MEDIUM | How has your relationship with your parents changed over your lifetime? |
| HIGH | Have you ever yelled at someone? |
| LOW | What would you pay money for even though you know it's not worth it? |
| HIGH | Have you ever bargained with a higher power? |
| MEDIUM | How close are you with your friends' families? |
| LOW | Do you remember to scrub behind your ears in the shower? |
| MEDIUM | Is there anyone you know that's technically not related to you, but you still consider and call them something like aunt/uncle/cousin? |
| HIGH | How do you think you personally could be a better person? |
| LOW | What's a food that you can really pack away under the right conditions? |
| LOW | If you were a bard, what would be your instrument of choice? |
| MEDIUM | What was the best and worst trip you've ever been on? |
| LOW | What was the best field trip you ever went on as a kid? |
| HIGH | Of all the times you've cried in your life, have more than half of them been because of movies, or because of personal problems? |
| MEDIUM | Is there anyone that you are close with, but wouldn't trust? Anyone you trust but are not close with? What person in the generation above you, that is not a member of your family, do you trust the most? |
| LOW | Are you a double sided tape person or a rolled tape person? |
| LOW | Did you love missing or skipping classes or did you hate when you had to miss school? |
| MEDIUM | Do you feel like you have high standards for the kinds of people you choose to spend time with? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever experienced peer pressure? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been present during an argument between a friend and their parent(s)? |
| HIGH | Have you ever cried in front of someone you didn't want to cry in front of? |
| MEDIUM | Do your parents ever judge the way other people parent their kids? |
| LOW | What's the ideal shade of green for a mint chip ice cream? |
| LOW | Do you say fire with one syllable or two? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been at a table where one of your group has been rude to the wait staff? |
| MEDIUM | Go through all the career options you thought of for yourself, from childhood until the one you've currently settled on, or even future ones if you're still looking. |
| LOW | Would you rather pay for fancy skin care or fancy hair care? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most embarrassing thing a friend of yours has done? |
| MEDIUM | Recall a time when you've spent money on something and been disappointed. |
| HIGH | Have you ever seen someone go through a religious transformation? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been compared to anyone in your extended family? |
| LOW | What was your go-to doodle throughout the years? |
| LOW | Were you a fortune teller kid or a paper airplane kid? |
| LOW | What's the boldest haircut you've seriously considered but never done? |
| MEDIUM | When's a time that someone hasn't believed you about something true? |
| MEDIUM | Which of your friends or family would you like to trade places with for a day? |
| LOW | Who do you know that gives the best hugs? |
| HIGH | Describe a time when you were suffering and no one knew. |
| LOW | What's a discontinued food or item (or formula change) that you miss? What about a store or restaurant that closed? |
| LOW | Which of your friends do you remember exactly how you first met? |
| LOW | Did you have any teachers that had cool or unlikely friendships with each other? |
| MEDIUM | What's something that a lot of people pay for that you think is a waste of money? Do you consider paying for convenience to be a waste of money (delivery, valet, toll roads)? |
| LOW | Do you fill up on bread before the meal at restaurants? |
| LOW | List all the tabs you have open right now in your browser. |
| LOW | What is a single use item that you'd find hard to part with if you were to seek out more sustainable options? |
| MEDIUM | Who's the most devout person you know? |
| LOW | As an isolated feeling, would you rather feel uncomfortably hungry or uncomfortably full? |
| LOW | What is the most comfortable bed you've slept on for an extended period of time? |
| LOW | Who is a dead musician/performer or a broken-up group that you wish you could have seen live? |
| MEDIUM | What is the most radical preference change you've had at some point in your life (food, style, etc.)? |
| LOW | Have you ever seen a tumbleweed? |
| MEDIUM | Do you tend to have an “all or nothing” mentality? |
| MEDIUM | What piece of art or media has been the most formative to the person you are today? |
| MEDIUM | What is a possession you lost that you still miss sometimes? |
| HIGH | Has anyone ever taken the fall for you? Have you for anyone? |
| HIGH | Have you ever watched someone or something die? |
| HIGH | What is something that you tried to do for a long time and eventually gave up on? |
| MEDIUM | What is something that you were proud to have fixed by yourself? |
| LOW | How often do you wash your sheets? |
| HIGH | Is there anyone in your life that you wish you'd never met? |
| MEDIUM | Who's a person from your past that you're most curious to know where they ended up? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever left something up to chance and then regretted it? |
| LOW | If you had to get one song lyric tattooed, what would it be? |
| MEDIUM | What is something that you pride yourself on? |
| LOW | Have you ever fallen asleep in a situation where you shouldn't have? |
| MEDIUM | When have you been most disappointed by a movie or music release? |
| LOW | What is a chore that you don't mind doing? |
| LOW | What is something that you wish you had a picture of? |
| LOW | What is a musical artist/group that you like that is most uncharacteristic for you to like? |
| LOW | What is the best class you've ever taken? |
| MEDIUM | Are you more concerned about judgment from your friends or from your family? |
| HIGH | When is a time that you haven't kept a promise? |
| LOW | What's the longest you've gone without sleep? |
| LOW | What is a movie or musical artist you like that most people don't like? |
| HIGH | Has something very small ever changed your mind on something very big? |
| LOW | Have you ever had an article of clothing that you wore to shreds? |
| HIGH | When is a time that you were scared you were gonna lose someone? |
| MEDIUM | What's something you like even though you know you shouldn't? |
| HIGH | Have you ever had to pick a side between friends? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you that no one saw? |
| MEDIUM | When is a time that something embarrassing could have happened to you, but the crisis was averted? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been successfully scammed? |
| MEDIUM | Has a friend or family member ever broken up with someone you really liked? |
| LOW | Are there any school projects or presentations that you remember in vivid detail (either your own or others')? |
| MEDIUM | Do you consider yourself an active listener? |
| LOW | Was there ever a teacher that you never had but wish you did? |
| LOW | Do you bare-ass it on public toilet seats? |
| LOW | Do you know anyone that always smells really good? |
| LOW | Do you know anyone that's always right? |
| MEDIUM | Has any part of your personality changed drastically over the course of your life? |
| LOW | With whom in your life do you have the most fun “first meeting” story? |
| LOW | Do you like your parents' friends? |
| MEDIUM | You're going to be forever imprisoned in one week; in what single place would you spend your last week of freedom? |
| LOW | How do you like to fall asleep? |
| LOW | Are you a sentimental person? |
| MEDIUM | Do you remember a place or person that you didn't like based solely on feeling? |
| MEDIUM | If you were given a bad fortune and the conditions of the fortune started being met, would you try to avoid it or let it play out? |
| LOW | What mythical creature would you choose to guard a dangerous artifact? |
| MEDIUM | Who's someone you know that you wish you had gotten to know better? |
| LOW | What's the best prank you or someone you know has pulled? |
| MEDIUM | When was a time you had an issue and just waited for it to go away? Did it go away? |
| LOW | Was there a time when you got lost and needed to ask for help? |
| LOW | What is one thing you remember about each of your elementary school teachers? |
| LOW | Who's the worst teacher you've had? |
| MEDIUM | Would you let your childhood self pick out a blind date for you? |
| MEDIUM | Would you let your parents set you up with someone? |
| LOW | What is a word you thought meant something different than the actual meaning? |
| LOW | Who was the best babysitter you've had? |
| MEDIUM | What is a game you played as a child that was terrifying for you? |
| MEDIUM | If you were stuck as your childhood self for a day, what would you do? |
| HIGH | Have there been any turning points in your life? |
| LOW | Who's been the best pet that belonged to someone you know? |
| MEDIUM | Who in your life is the easiest to buy gifts for? |
| MEDIUM | Describe the way that you visualize yourself when you think about being elderly. |
| MEDIUM | Is there anything relatively inexpensive that you've always wanted but never purchased? |
| LOW | In which decade do you wish you could have partied? |
| MEDIUM | Who is the most mysterious or difficult-to-read person you know? |
| MEDIUM | What do you put off as long as possible? |
| LOW | Does your mind wander more when you're on the toilet or in the shower? |
| LOW | Would you ever live in a commune? |
| MEDIUM | If you were stuck in a situation with many people, such as a retreat, would you rather be with people that you only know slightly, or people that you don't know at all? |
| LOW | Were you able to name any of your family pets? |
| LOW | What's the most impressive thing you've memorized? |
| HIGH | What was something that was a huge part of your life at some point and now you almost never think about it? |
| MEDIUM | Do you have any friendships that you expect will last forever? Do you have any that you once expected that of, and then they ended? |
| MEDIUM | Describe a project that you tried/wanted to do with another person or group that ended up fizzling out. |
| HIGH | Is there anyone in your life that you're still waiting for an apology from? |
| MEDIUM | Is there anyone in your life that you haven't talked to in years, but you would call or text them right now with no hesitation? |
| HIGH | Are there any friends or family that you should have checked in with by now? |
| MEDIUM | When's a time that you were dreading something, but it turned out more than alright? |
| LOW | Did you ever have a “business” as a kid? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most out of your way you've gone for a total stranger? |
| LOW | What's a word that you almost never say the normal way? |
| MEDIUM | What's the silliest thing you've ever done to seem cool or different? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever had multiple friendships/relationships with people end in the same way? |
| LOW | What was your first experience with technology? |
| LOW | Whose taste do you trust the most? |
| LOW | What fantasy universe do you wish you lived in? |
| MEDIUM | What's something you were desensitized to at a young age? |
| LOW | When did you feel the most cool? (this could be a time period, singular moment, or both) |
| LOW | How many years older or younger would you date? |
| LOW | What's the scariest movie you've seen that you enjoyed? Didn't enjoy? |
| MEDIUM | Has someone ever strongly recommended something to you that you tried and thought was terrible? |
| LOW | What's your tooth brushing technique? |
| LOW | When you think of music videos, what's the first one that comes to mind? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most unexpectedly generous gift someone's given you? |
| MEDIUM | Are your friends and family the kind of people you can trust to tell you whether something is spicy or not? |
| LOW | Do you have any unusual food aversions? |
| MEDIUM | Do you have any food aversions that you can attribute to a single childhood incident? |
| LOW | Has a teacher ever convinced you to do something outside of school? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been a victim of a mean-spirited prank? |
| LOW | What's a food you can only eat under certain circumstances? |
| LOW | What's your least favorite color and why? |
| MEDIUM | What's a specific piece of information you have about someone you don't really know? |
| LOW | Did you and your friends have code names for people/crushes? |
| HIGH | What's the biggest “incident” that's happened in your family? |
| LOW | What makes up a bug's creepiness factor for you? |
| MEDIUM | Have your parents ever said something to you that really stuck, and you're certain that they don't remember it? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever overheard someone talking about you? |
| MEDIUM | Has someone ever approached you about a grudge they've held because of something you did that you have no memory of? |
| MEDIUM | Describe a time you got something that you asked for and didn't think you would get. |
| MEDIUM | What's the thing that you've worked the hardest to improve on in your life? |
| HIGH | Have you ever been mean to someone you care about? |
| LOW | If you had to rename yourself, what would your new name be? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been genuinely fearful because of an encounter with an animal? |
| MEDIUM | Do you remember the people that were next to you when you had to line up alphabetically in school? Did you like them? |
| HIGH | Do you think you've ever been a lesson for someone else? |
| HIGH | Is there anyone to whom you should apologize? |
| HIGH | Do you have any unfinished business with a former friend or estranged family member? |
| HIGH | Is there anything in your life for which you didn't get the closure you wanted? |
| LOW | What's your driving pet peeve? |
| MEDIUM | For artists: do you tear out pages of your sketchbook when you don't like what you drew? |
| MEDIUM | What's a one-off movie that you think deserved a sequel? |
| MEDIUM | What's a movie that deserves to be remade? |
| LOW | What would you name a boat? |
| MEDIUM | Is there a movie that you cry watching every time? |
| HIGH | Do you have any fond memories with a person that you're not particularly fond of? |
| MEDIUM | What is something that's been part of your routine your whole life that you changed or stopped recently? |
| MEDIUM | What's a piece of media that surprised you when you first experienced it? |
| HIGH | Have any of your core values changed because of someone you've met? |
| MEDIUM | Describe the way you think about something (or someone) that you believe to be often misunderstood. |
| LOW | For what do you unashamedly jump on the bandwagon (i.e. popular new tv shows, social apps, style trends)? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most statistically unlikely thing that's ever happened to you? |
| HIGH | What movie or tv show/episode messed you up the most? |
| MEDIUM | What feeling do you wish you could experience again, but can't? |
| MEDIUM | When was the last time you risked being in an uncomfortable situation and it was worth it? |
| MEDIUM | What's the funniest story you've ever been told? |
| LOW | Think of your favorite shade of your favorite color and identify it like an arbitrarily specific paint color. |
| LOW | Have you ever run a lemonade stand? |
| LOW | What's the best thing you've acquired at a garage sale? |
| LOW | Do you say bless you/gesundheit when a stranger sneezes? |
| HIGH | When someone tells you about an issue they're having (that has nothing to do with you), is your first instinct to jump into problem solving mode, or to just listen and express sympathy? |
| LOW | Do you remember any of your really old usernames, passwords, or lock combos? |
| MEDIUM | What are you most diligent and least diligent about in terms of health? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever “recommended” a terrible movie to someone just so you could have another person to share in the misery? |
| MEDIUM | Is there something you've never experienced that is a big milestone/first for many people? |
| LOW | Were you aware of anyone that had a crush on you in middle school? |
| MEDIUM | Have you or a friend of yours ever been the cause of physical injury to someone else? |
| MEDIUM | What experience involving public speaking caused you the most anxiety? |
| LOW | Describe your experience with twins (i.e. how many pairs have you known, were they identical, did they have psychic links, or are you yourself a twin) |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever cried at a song or piece of music? |
| LOW | Have you ever won a very obscure award? |
| MEDIUM | What's something that your friends used to (or still) poke fun at you for? |
| LOW | What's a color that you like but would never wear? |
| HIGH | What's something that you appreciate the most about someone that you find the most fault in? What's your least favorite trait about someone that you almost always get along with? |
| MEDIUM | What's a staple in your life? |
| HIGH | What's the most horrible thing you've witnessed and ignored? |
| LOW | When's a time that you've been caught unprepared in terrible weather? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most uncomfortable car ride you've experienced? |
| LOW | Have you known anyone with a really unique laugh or sneeze? |
| MEDIUM | What's a movie you really like that you wouldn't typically recommend to people? |
| LOW | Is there a scene you really love from a movie that you generally didn't love? |
| LOW | What outdated slang did you used to use regularly? |
| LOW | Is there a word or phrase that only one person you know uses? |
| LOW | What's your go-to rainy day movie? |
| HIGH | What's a secret that you kept for a very long time? |
| MEDIUM | Do you have any memorable “truth or dare” experiences? |
| LOW | Doorbells or knockers? |
| HIGH | Which two of your friends (they don't have to be acquainted) are the most different from each other? What do you connect with most about each of them? |
| LOW | Can you recall a particularly amazing nap that you've had? |
| HIGH | Has there ever been a very specific moment in your life that made you question the existence of a higher power? |
| MEDIUM | What's a piece of lost media (personal) that you wish you still had access to? |
| MEDIUM | What's something that you wish offered a “stripped down” budget-friendly accommodation (like a cheap airline where carry ons cost extra)? |
| MEDIUM | Have any of your friends ever gotten together and then separated while you knew them? Did you remain friends with both of them after the breakup? |
| MEDIUM | Have there been moments in your life that made you believe in fate? |
| LOW | Have you ever loaned something that was never returned to you? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most significant way that you've deviated from your upbringing? |
| MEDIUM | When you're in a bad mood, how willing are you to allow things to cheer you up? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever had a paranormal experience? |
| LOW | What clothing item of yours do you wish you had a duplicate of? |
| LOW | How do you press walk buttons at crosswalks? |
| MEDIUM | What's the saddest movie you've seen that you enjoyed? Didn't enjoy? |
| LOW | What's a flat out lie you were told as a kid that you believed for a long time? |
| MEDIUM | Do you seek out challenges in your life? Are you easily bored without challenge? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever accepted a challenge that you had to give up on when it became too challenging? |
| LOW | What's your karaoke song? |
| LOW | What's the best thing you've seen live? (i.e. concert, theater, speaker) |
| HIGH | Whose disapproval is the most significant to you? |
| LOW | When you were a kid and your parents left you home alone, what was the first thing you wanted to do? |
| MEDIUM | Can you recall a singular incident that changed or instigated a rule in your household? |
| MEDIUM | Recall a time when you really thought you were going to get something and you didn't get it (award, birthday present, etc.). |
| LOW | What's the most significant thing a relative of yours has done? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most surprising invite you've ever received? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever given an empty gesture that someone actually took you up on? Do you often give empty gestures? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever made a surprising discovery about the way someone viewed your friendship or relationship with them that was different from what you expected or felt personally? |
| LOW | Have there been people in your life that you at any point considered your #1 best friend? |
| MEDIUM | Has someone ever grievously apologized to you for something that you have no memory of or about which you harbored absolutely no ill will? |
| MEDIUM | When you search for the key word “sorry” in your text message search bar, which conversations show up the most? (other words to try: worried, news) |
| LOW | What's a place that you had a very grand image of that was shattered when you first experienced it? What about anywhere that was better than you expected? |
| LOW | What's a question that you've been dying for someone to ask you? |
| MEDIUM | What would you argue with a stranger about? |
| LOW | What's your most boast-worthy accomplishment? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most trouble you've ever been in? |
| MEDIUM | How have your expectations and beliefs regarding relationships changed over time? |
| LOW | What's the most recent fantasy/daydream you remember having? |
| MEDIUM | When was a time where fantasy became reality for you? |
| LOW | What's the first or most treasured stuffed animal you had? |
| LOW | What sum of money would convince you to shave your head? |
| LOW | Go through the hairstyle phases of your life. |
| LOW | What would you do if you had a runny nose and an acquaintance offered you a cloth handkerchief? |
| HIGH | When was a time that you felt insulted? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most memorable compliment you've ever received? |
| MEDIUM | Create a description of a past life you might have had based on the meanings of your 4 grandparents' surnames. |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever had a friend that not a lot of people liked? Did a friend of yours ever have a friend you disliked? |
| LOW | What's a skill you have that you don't often have the opportunity to use? |
| HIGH | What was something that took you a long time to admit? |
| MEDIUM | What has caused you way more stress than it should have? |
| LOW | What is your go-to comfort on a cold day? What is your favorite refresher on a hot day? |
| MEDIUM | Whose face should be on our money? |
| LOW | What is the most ideal trash can design? |
| MEDIUM | Besides sushi, what do you believe deserves the revolving format? |
| LOW | What restaurant have you been to with both the best food and the worst atmosphere? Vice versa? |
| LOW | What three movies would you show to a person who has never in their life seen a movie before? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever come up with a really good response or comeback to something after the fact, and still dwell on it to this day? |
| LOW | What movie have you been “meaning to see” for the longest time? |
| MEDIUM | Is there a person or place that shows up unusually often in your dreams? |
| LOW | What's a place that you would go to every day if it were right across the street from where you lived? |
| MEDIUM | What's a personal anecdote that you always embellish? |
| HIGH | What's the furthest you've gone for another person? |
| LOW | What friend or family member has a recipe that you have asked/would ask for? |
| LOW | What snack could you graze on for a whole day? |
| MEDIUM | What's a song that you wish was written for you (or that you had written for someone)? |
| MEDIUM | When is a time that you had to get figures of authority involved in an interpersonal dispute? |
| LOW | What's a delicious meal that you still dream about? |
| MEDIUM | What is a work with multiple versions/ adaptations where the first one you experienced is not your favorite version? |
| LOW | What are your most memorable moments from field trips as a kid? |
| MEDIUM | What “friendship assets” are most desirable to you? (i.e. friend with a pickup truck, friend that can fix things, friend with a pool) |
| LOW | Have you ever been pooped on by a bird? |
| MEDIUM | If you made your own religion, what would it be all about? |
| MEDIUM | What's a product you loved that was discontinued, or a product you still love that is hard to find? |
| MEDIUM | At what times in your life have you been in a position of authority? |
| LOW | Have you ever been a perfume/cologne wearer? |
| MEDIUM | What are your core memories from going through puberty? |
| MEDIUM | What are some interests, phases, or fixations in your life that were strong but very short lived? |
| LOW | What do you never leave the house without, besides keys and phone? |
| LOW | Where in school was your lunch spot? What were some of your typical school lunches? |
| MEDIUM | There's a 7 year old in your house. What snack are you making them from whatever's in your kitchen right now? Is it different from what you'd make for yourself? |
| MEDIUM | Did you like creative writing in middle school? If so, what did you write stories about? |
| MEDIUM | Who do you know with the most interesting hobby or profession? |
| HIGH | What did you used to think was stupid, and what changed your mind? |
| LOW | Have you ever witnessed a proposal? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever consistently lied to a friend about liking something (maybe a type of gift they'd give, or outings they'd invite you to) in order to spare their feelings? |
| LOW | What would you want your grandkids to call you? |
| MEDIUM | What's something that's really popular now that you knew about when it was still niche? |
| MEDIUM | Do you have any standout memories of family members being drunk at functions? |
| LOW | What's the first joke that comes to your mind? |
| LOW | What's the spiciest food you've ever eaten? |
| HIGH | When in your life have you witnessed or experienced a medical emergency? |
| MEDIUM | Has someone ever pointed out a behavior or habit of yours that you didn't know wasn't normal? |
| LOW | What two friends of yours, who don't know each other, do you think would get along the best? |
| MEDIUM | When's a time that you missed out on something because you were sick? |
| MEDIUM | Is there any food you make from a culture that is not your own that you'd feel confident and comfortable sharing with a person of that culture? |
| HIGH | Is there any moment in your life from which you would go back and restart? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most old-fashioned opinion you hold? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever called 911? Has it ever been called for or because of you? |
| MEDIUM | Did you ever “plan” to run away when you were a kid? |
| LOW | What was the best hide and seek spot you ever found? |
| HIGH | If you could go back in time to a bad memory, not to change anything but to relive it and imagine a scenario in which things had gone right, which memory would you choose? |
| LOW | What food do you wish you could make well? |
| LOW | When was the last time you got a splinter? |
| MEDIUM | Who do you know whose physical appearance has changed the most? |
| MEDIUM | Has someone ever enthusiastically recognized you in a public place and you had no idea who they were? |
| LOW | Did you ever have a meal where any other time it would have been ordinary, but the situation made it taste like the best thing ever? |
| LOW | What's a smell you like that most people don't like? |
| LOW | At any point in your school career did you get a grade that surprised you (either good or bad)? |
| MEDIUM | What “Make a Wish” wish would your childhood self have made? |
| HIGH | Has a friend's parent ever made you participate in an activity you were uncomfortable with? |
| LOW | Have you ever bought something because of an advertisement? Has it ever turned out to be totally not what you expected? |
| MEDIUM | Are you able to separate art from artist when it's revealed that an artist you like has engaged in unethical behavior or ways of thinking? |
| LOW | Do you “knock on wood”? |
| LOW | Has a little kid ever peeked at you under a bathroom stall in a public restroom? |
| LOW | What's a word that you accidentally mispronounced for a long time? |
| MEDIUM | If someone's car bumps yours and causes a little superficial damage, do you/would you get their insurance info or do you let them go? Has anyone ever done so when you weren't there and left a note? |
| MEDIUM | What would you miss the most about the town you're living in now if you moved away? |
| LOW | Do you trim your nose hairs? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been nervous while in a “bad” neighborhood? |
| LOW | Did your school's PE classes grade based on performance? |
| MEDIUM | If you could own an original painting from any artist, alive or dead, what artist and/or painting would it be? |
| LOW | Have you ever eaten at a Michelin star or Michelin guide restaurant? Was it worth it? |
| LOW | What is something you never procrastinate on? |
| MEDIUM | Are you interested in other people's drama? |
| LOW | Does the thought of owning a jacuzzi excite you? |
| HIGH | Would you rather lose all your possessions or all your money? |
| MEDIUM | If you were given a hundred dollars for no reason, or found it on the ground, would you consider it “treat money” and spend it for a special reason or would you just add it to your savings/bank account? |
| LOW | Is there a piece of furniture in your home that you practically never touch? |
| LOW | How do you feel about beach decor? (driftwood, seashells, blues and whites) |
| MEDIUM | What was your first experience with alcohol? |
| LOW | Do you go on vacation primarily to have fun or to relax? |
| HIGH | Do you tend to have secret vices or social vices? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most “backwards” place you've ever spent time in? |
| MEDIUM | What's your most memorable bathroom experience? |
| LOW | Would you rather find $20 on the ground or be given a gift basket? |
| MEDIUM | Have ever reached the point with a significant other where you could use the toilet without closing the door? If not, could you imagine it? |
| MEDIUM | Who do you know personally that doesn't get nearly enough recognition for their talent? |
| MEDIUM | What's the worst thing you've ever forgotten or forgotten about? |
| LOW | Can you remember (and imitate) any past morning alarm sounds that you used to use? |
| LOW | Is there anything you'd never buy from a generic brand? |
| HIGH | What's a wonderful experience that you'd never do again, or a horrible experience that you would do again? |
| HIGH | When you're upset, do you prefer to be alone or to be comforted by others? What other forms of comfort do you seek out? |
| MEDIUM | How do you hint to a guest that you want them to leave your house? |
| LOW | Do you typically enjoying talking to your seat mate on a plane? |
| MEDIUM | If you had to recite a whole movie from memory, which one do you think you could recap most accurately, scene for scene? |
| MEDIUM | Is there anyone with whom you get along quite well, although others might find it surprising? |
| LOW | What's your favorite holiday tradition? |
| HIGH | What was the first significant experience in your childhood that made you realize that not everyone is looking out for your best interests? |
| MEDIUM | Has someone ever thrown away or given away something of yours without your knowledge? |
| LOW | What's the nicest travel experience you've had (plane, train, road trip etc.)? |
| LOW | Are there any sequels (not remakes) that you think are better than the original? |
| MEDIUM | What's something that you pressured yourself into doing? |
| MEDIUM | Which member of your extended family do you/would you feel most comfortable staying with? |
| HIGH | Who's a person that you used to admire? What changed that? |
| LOW | What movie have you rewatched the most as an adult? |
| MEDIUM | How long did your parents pay your bills (health care, cell phone bill, etc), or are they still covering anything? |
| LOW | What are your thoughts on marzipan? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever had a dream where you were someone other than yourself? |
| LOW | Have you ever been to a restaurant that served a complementary appetizer other than bread or chips? |
| LOW | Does talking about gross topics during a meal affect your appetite? |
| HIGH | How do you react in the company of people that are saying mean things behind someone's back, when the person in question is someone you know and like? |
| MEDIUM | What are some of your favorite and least favorite sayings, expressions, and/or slang phrases? |
| LOW | What does an ideal afternoon snack look like to you? |
| MEDIUM | What's something you used to think about a lot that you don't think about much anymore? |
| MEDIUM | What's a class that isn't typically mandatory in schools, but should be? |
| MEDIUM | How much stock does a person's handshake have in your first impression of them? |
| LOW | If you had a chance to try the absolute best version of some food or drink, what would you choose? |
| HIGH | What is a past experience where you wish you could have had a better perspective? |
| LOW | How long are you typically willing to wait for a table at a restaurant? Are there any places (or types of places) that are notable exceptions? |
| LOW | What do you do when you have trouble falling asleep? |
| MEDIUM | If you went to college: what is your wildest story from that period of your life? |
| LOW | What is your most expensive hobby or interest? |
| MEDIUM | Which of your possessions might you specifically bequeath to someone when you die? |
| LOW | Do you know what most of your extended family does for work? |
| MEDIUM | If you found out that someone you knew was an alien masquerading as a human on earth, who would surprise you the least? |
| LOW | What's a place you'd never choose to travel to, but would teleport to (for a day trip) if the chance arose? |
| MEDIUM | When is the last time you screamed (involuntarily)? |
| LOW | What's the last thing you burned (in the culinary sense)? |
| MEDIUM | What's the most unusual allergy/sensitivity you've known someone to have? |
| LOW | Do you have any recipes that you created yourself and regularly follow? |
| LOW | What's a condiment that you use, or used to use, a lot of? |
| LOW | What's your go-to dish to bring to a potluck? |
| MEDIUM | How would you act if you deliberately wanted someone (such as an overeager suitor) to dislike you? |
| MEDIUM | What “rich people thing” would you never do, even if you had all the money in the world? |
| LOW | What's the last movie you saw in a theater? |
| MEDIUM | If you could combine elements from every place you've lived into the perfect city, what would it look like? |
| HIGH | When was a time that you saw something you shouldn't have seen? |
| LOW | What was your go-to play pretend scenario as a kid, by yourself and/or with others? |
| MEDIUM | What's your earliest memory related to politics? |
| MEDIUM | If you were starting your own company, who are 3 former or current colleagues that you'd want to bring around to work with again? |
| HIGH | Are you typically more judgmental of others or yourself? |
| LOW | What's your least favorite Christmas song? |
| LOW | What's the closest to empty your car has been before stopping for gas? |
| LOW | What's your favorite euphemism? |
| LOW | What do you look for in a toilet paper? |
| MEDIUM | Can you recall an annoying advertisement that you couldn't seem to escape? |
| HIGH | If you found out you had a twin from which you were separated at birth, how upset would you be with your parents for hiding it? |
| MEDIUM | What is a popular rumor or mystery about a relative that is passed around within your family? |
| LOW | What's the most money you've spent in one sitting? |
| LOW | How far are you typically willing to walk to avoid paying for parking? |
| LOW | At which points in your life did you level up in bed size? |
| LOW | What's a trick or skill that elevated your cooking once you learned it? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever plotted revenge? Were any of your vengeful fantasies ever realized? |
| LOW | What's something in your fridge or pantry right now that really needs to go? |
| MEDIUM | Who was your first kiss? If you're currently in a relationship, what was the first kiss with your partner like? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever asked someone out, and if so, how did you do it? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever been hit on by a stranger? Do you remember what they said to you? |
| MEDIUM | What is something you used to envy people for, and no longer do? |
| LOW | If you could change the color of any one feature on your body, what would it be? |
| MEDIUM | What's a song, performance, or other piece of work you strongly dislike from an artist/creator that you usually love? |
| LOW | Have you ever recorded a funny outgoing message for your answering machine? |
| HIGH | Have you ever had a funeral for a pet? |
| LOW | Out of the people you know, who would you do a housing swap with? |
| MEDIUM | If your name could only be comprised of the letters in your parent's names, what name would you take? If you have a partner, what names could you make under the same conditions? |
| MEDIUM | How have your views and opinions regarding social media changed over time? |
| MEDIUM | Did you ever tell anyone you “like-liked” them, or ask a friend to tell someone you liked them? Were you ever in one of those three positions? |
| MEDIUM | Do you know someone who you thought was either too strict or too loose with professional boundaries? |
| MEDIUM | Do you have any hard interpersonal boundaries within the workplace? |
| MEDIUM | Did you have specific traits in mind when imagining your soulmate, and how have your real life relationships compared? |
| LOW | Who has given you butterflies? |
| MEDIUM | How much did/do you know about your siblings' dating life? |
| LOW | Has any person outside of your immediate family stayed with you for an extended period of time? |
| MEDIUM | Have there been any catastrophic breakups in your friend group? |
| MEDIUM | Was there ever a time when you really didn't understand why your friend liked someone? |
| LOW | Who was the heartthrob of your middle/high school class? Did you also crush on them? |
| MEDIUM | Were there ever any major fallouts in your friend group? |
| MEDIUM | What did you think would change when you became an adult that didn't? |
| LOW | Have you ever had an office crush/romance? |
| HIGH | What's the most cringeworthy thing you've done in the name of love? |
| LOW | Was there ever a friend group you wished you were a part of? |
| LOW | Which endearments are acceptable to you (hun, honey, babe, sweetie, etc)? |
| LOW | If you could become any fictional character at the begging of their story, what character would it be and would you play out the story as written or change it? |
| LOW | What's the most full (food) you've ever been in your life? |
| LOW | If you could reacquire a skill that you've lost, what would it be? |
| MEDIUM | If you time traveled to 50 years ago, what would you not miss about this time period? |
| MEDIUM | Can you recall the point in your adulthood at which the house you grew up in became your “parents' house” instead of “home”? |
| LOW | What's the strangest way you've seen someone show affection? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever established a safe word or secret method of communication with someone? |
| LOW | Have you ever experienced a moment that felt like you were in a movie? |
| MEDIUM | Do you usually believe exes can be friends? Have you stayed friends with any of your exes? Do you know someone who has a weird relationship with their ex? |
| HIGH | What do you think deserves a harsher punishment? |
| MEDIUM | Do you remember having the “what are we” conversation with any of your partners, and how did the conversation go? |
| LOW | Have you ever been walked in on in the bathroom? |
| MEDIUM | What is your best “two truths and a lie”? |
| MEDIUM | Do you believe it's possible for two people to have true love and yet fail to maintain a romantic relationship? |
| HIGH | Can you remember a time when you felt like you'd give anything to go back in time and undo something? |
| LOW | What are some books you had to read in school that you really hated? |
| MEDIUM | If a cosmetic surgeon had full reign over your body to create the most attractive version of you, what things do you think they'd change? |
| LOW | What is something you are convinced people are only pretending to like? |
| LOW | Who else besides Elvis and Michael Jackson would you consider “musical royalty”? |
| HIGH | Have you ever seen someone battle an addiction to something other than drugs or alcohol? |
| LOW | Did your town have any urban legends? |
| MEDIUM | At what point in your schooling did you find it most difficult to make friends? |
| LOW | Have you ever frequently a food or beverage establishment to the point where they knew your order? |
| LOW | Have you ever taken advantage of a “love it or your money back” return policy for a food item? |
| LOW | When you were young, who was the coolest “older kid” you looked up to? |
| HIGH | Have you ever had to break bad news to someone? |
| LOW | What look do you wish you could pull off? |
| LOW | Has anyone told you that you look like a celebrity? |
| LOW | How many hours would travel for a day trip? |
| HIGH | When was a time you chose to do something that you knew you would regret? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever needed to stop a dead end conversation/argument? |
| LOW | What's the worst way that someone has misspelled your name? |
| LOW | Do you give a different name at coffee shops? |
| LOW | Who else knows the passcode to your phone? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever known anyone who has filed a restraining order (or had one filed against them)? |
| MEDIUM | Do you still own anything that you got from a previous partner? |
| MEDIUM | What do you expect of someone who asks you out on a date? |
| LOW | What is the upper limit of what you would shell out for a coffee drink (or a cocktail)? |
| MEDIUM | What's your memory of your first big injury? |
| MEDIUM | When you were young, what was something that was a treat/special occasion thing to you but normal/routine to a friend, or vice versa? |
| MEDIUM | Did you (or do you) have any friends whose houses you didn't like going to? |
| MEDIUM | What would you love to waste money on if you were rich? |
| LOW | What add-ons/upgrades will you always pay for at a food or drink establishment? Never pay for? |
| MEDIUM | How long must a layover be for you to consider leaving the airport? |
| MEDIUM | What seemingly innocuous charge would definitely seem like a red flag for fraud to your credit card company? |
| MEDIUM | In a cooperative situation, what role would you naturally fall into? (i.e. the leader, the brains, the brawn) |
| LOW | What food / food group do you think you could cut out of your life the easiest if you had to? |
| HIGH | What was the most difficult period of your current or most recent relationship? How did the situation improve? |
| MEDIUM | Have you ever known a couple that you thought should break up, and did you ever make your opinion known? Did they eventually split? |
| LOW | Have you ever laughed so hard that you choked on your food or spat out your water? |
| MEDIUM | Can you recall a time when you really wanted to say something, but you held your tongue? |
| LOW | What was your weirdest recurring fantasy/daydream as a kid? |
| MEDIUM | What do you think the people you have shared a space with would say is your worst living habit? |
| MEDIUM | When you imagine scenarios where you get to tell someone off, do you like to imagine yourself cool and collected, or do you fantasize about really exploding? |
| LOW | What's the most surprising thing you learned about your parents later in life? |
| LOW | Do you prefer savory snacks or sweet snacks? |
| LOW | What extracurricular activities did you participate in as a kid? If you have or were to have a kid, what activities would you want to sign them up for? |
| MEDIUM | Which of your friends did you think was most likely to succeed? |
| LOW | If you could have a coffee date with any teacher from your past, who would it be? |
| LOW | What is your best “nowhere to wear this” outfit? |
| LOW | What is your most urgent chore that you've been putting off for the longest time? |
| LOW | If you could have any one place within 15 minutes of you, what would it be? (e.g. a local restaurant from somewhere else that you've lived, or a big box store that's not in your state) |
| LOW | What's the best uncommon frugal hack you've learned in your life? |
| LOW | What's a food or drink you make that's always been better than any other version you've tried? |
| LOW | How often do you run into people you know in public? |
| MEDIUM | If two of your friends were having gatherings at the same time that you wanted equally to attend, would you rather go to half of each event or choose just one? |
| LOW | What is the socially acceptable maximum of ice creams to sample at a shop before deciding? |
| HIGH | Do you think organized religion has been a net positive or negative on the human race? |
| MEDIUM | What is one thing you wish your partner liked/liked more? If uncoupled — what is one interest that you want to share with a partner (if you can only guarantee one)? |
| MEDIUM | What's an experience that you've regularly tried and failed to replicate — i.e. a food item that has never measured up to the first place you had it, or the perfect living situation or friend group from a specific time in your life |
| MEDIUM | Are you generally the type to tell a white lie to spare the feelings or reputation of someone NOT in the room? |
| MEDIUM | Do you make distinctions between friends and acquaintances? What needs to happen for someone to be upgraded to friend status? |
| LOW | What's a movie, show, or song that you thought was just okay the first time you experienced it, but gets better and better every time you re-experience it? |
| MEDIUM | What is something that never seems to be designed with you in mind? |
| HIGH | During your schooling, were you ever aware of any inappropriate teacher-student relationships? |
| MEDIUM | Who's the most suspicious neighbor you've had? |
| MEDIUM | What is a movie (or book) that would be a red flag if someone says it's their favorite? |
| LOW | What are words or phrases that only your partner (or a friend) would know the meaning of? |
| LOW | What's your go-to reaction when you have to walk by someone on a street corner with a clipboard? |
| LOW | What's a common animal that you've never seen in the wild? |
| LOW | What's your morning routine? What part of it could use some work? |
| LOW | What's a movie that you only like or rewatch one half of? |
| HIGH | Can you recall a time when you said goodbye to someone and thought to yourself, “this'll probably be the last time I ever see them”? Were you correct? |
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